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Matthew Willner LCSW, SIFI, IFS Certified

Psychotherapist - (at Matthew Willner Psychotherapy)

I offer affirming individual and couples therapy for people in ENM, polyamorous, kink, BDSM, and leather communities. I’m a Certified IFS therapist practicing virtually with clients in New York and Colorado.

Master of Social Work from Columbia University

NY LCSW #102742, CO LCSW #CSW.09933219

I work with individuals and couples in ENM, polyamorous, kink, BDSM, and leather communities who want a therapist who actually understands these relationship structures and communities. My clinical approach is Internal Family Systems (IFS), a non-pathologizing model that works well for the kinds of things that come up in these communities: navigating jealousy and attachment in non-monogamous relationships, working through parts of yourself that feel conflicted about desire or identity, managing relationship transitions, and processing experiences that don’t fit neatly into how most therapy is framed. I am a Certified IFS Therapist through the IFS Institute.

I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, identity development, relationship challenges, coming out (including kink and ENM identity), and sexual shame. I also work with LGBTQ+ individuals and with men specifically on the ways socialization shapes how they show up in relationships.

Sessions are virtual. I am licensed in New York and Colorado.

Language(s) spoken: English

VIRTUAL ONLY IN NEW YORK AND COLORADO

Locations:
  • US-CO (Colorado)
  • US-NY (New York)
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