Sam Korthof

In my work, I help people reconnect with their own aliveness. Many of us feel deeply disconnected— from ourselves, from our loved ones, or from a life that we no longer recognize. And it hurts. We feel stuck, and those familiar patterns of resentment, insecurity, and numbing out just aren’t working for us anymore. I find that when we learn to stop spending our lives running from pain and instead practice moving towards love, joy, and connection, everything changes. I would love to help you find that.

In sessions with me, we’ll actively practice new ways of living– not just talk about it. This might look like building mindfulness & somatic skills, safely releasing pent up emotions, or learning new ways to identify and express your needs to your loved ones. Whatever your struggles, you will be met by me with compassion, curiosity, and respect.

I work with teens, adults, and couples, both in person at my office in downtown Asheville and through telehealth. As a non-binary, leftist therapist, I’m especially passionate about working with LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples, including transgender folks and non-straight sexualities. I’m also passionate about helping clients navigate non-monogamous and kink-informed relationships. I am committed to decolonizing my work and am trauma and attachment informed.