Psychotherapists - Licensed or Registered

• Former army veteran
• Kink Educator for 15 years
• Sex and Polyamory Educator for 10 years
• Developed a customized program for polycule group therapy and relationship counseling, including contract templates and educational materials.
• Kink, polyamory, and queer aligned therapist
• Former military veteran
• Sex workers, veterans, consensual non-monogamy, LGBTQIA+, kink, sex therapy/education, relationship/polycule counseling

I offer poly-friendly individual and relationship counseling that is grounded in an LGBTQIA+ friendly and neurodivergent perspective. Language: English. Populations: I see individuals 16+ (note that anyone under the age of 18 will need parental consent) and work with families of any age.

Specialties = EMDR, Lifespan Integration, Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems, Poly Couples Therapy

Language(s) spoken = English

Populations served - ages, concerns, etc. = Adults 18+, Couples, Families, Polycules AND primary concerns addressing = domestic violence, abuse, trauma, PTSD, family conflict, childhood abuse, spiritual abuse, religious trauma, and relationship issues

California Licensed MFT, Board certified sex therapist, lecturer, author, and former Ask Isadora syndicated sex and relationship advice columnist which appeared in many news weeklies nationwide. For more than 35 years I have specialized in improving relationships, enhancing sexual expression, and communications (with oneself and with others). Traditional arrangements and Non. One time consultations or ongoing solution focused counseling. Adult individuals, couples, and relationship groups.

I work in full 90 minute sessions. I think these sessions of double the customary length of the standard 45 minute “hour” provide the best use of your time and money. I require payment by cash or check at the end of each appointment. Depending on your health coverage you may be able to get partial reimbursement for which I will provide a receipt. There are no long therapy contracts. Your sessions are scheduled as you need them, weekly, monthly or occasionally.

I emphasize problem solving - offering education, tools, techniques and resources. I provide a free online discussion Forum at www.askisadora.com. You can read my essays online on Psychology Today (www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-sociability) and see the list of my published books under Publications on my web site.

I work with adult clients, individuals, couples, and complex relationships. I also provide psychotherapeutic support to individuals seeking general counseling, assessments and support for individuals needing letters for medical procedures including gender confirming procedures, weight loss surgeries. I work with clients aged 18 and up and sometimes children aged 15-17 for assessments or in family therapy. My specialties are Queer and Transgender clients, Sex-positive and Kink aware individuals, technology and video game professionals and developers as well as people employed in that industry.

I am a therapist who is a part of the LGBTQ+ and poly communities. I have been working with these communities on a professional basis for close to 20 years. My practice includes varying combinations of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Zen Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, and Emotionally-Focused Therapy with Couples, with an overall focus on the importance of the relationship and connection between the therapist and the client to ensure that you feel secure and heard.

“Allow yourself to become intimately connected with all your parts.” -Virginia Satir

It takes courage to shine light on the parts of you that want to be seen. With a spirit of play and creativity, I will encourage you to engage your sense of wonder, so we can identify and build on your unique strengths.

Do you struggle in your relationships? What could it be like to intentionally cultivate a relationship where you are always seen and valued? With the right fit, that’s what happens in therapy. I will accept you exactly as you are, while making space for the person you are growing into - with compassion, warmth, and sometimes even humor. All of your emotions are welcome in our exploration - even the ones you judge yourself for.

You deserve to feel love and belonging.

As your therapist, I will invite you into a deeper and more rewarding relationship with yourself. Therapy looks different for everyone. We will work together to collaboratively discover what therapy looks like for you. You know yourself better than I ever will.

If you are seeking therapy with a partner or partners, I will help you learn to slow down and LISTEN to each other with curiosity, respect, and a willingness to be surprised. With couples and partners in all kinds of relationships, I support you to communicate more effectively, and see the best in one another.

Using a culturally sensitive, anti-oppression lens, I welcome people of every ability, size, gender, national origin, race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, relationship style; anywhere along the gender and sexuality spectrum - from teens to elders. I am CNM/polyamory-aware and BDSM/kink-knowledgeable, and sex worker friendly.

Some Common Issues I Can Help With: Relationships and Intimacy • Open Relationships/Consensual Non-Monogamy • Sexuality, Gender and Identity including LGBTQQ2SIA+ • Sex Therapy • Cultural Differences and Power Dynamics • Issues around experiences of Privilege or Oppression • Anxiety, Stress and Depression • ADHD • Creativity • Self Compassion and Releasing Shame • Life Transitions and Life Purpose • Psychedelic and Entheogenic Integration • Spiritual growth • Grief, Loss and Loneliness • Aging • Coping With Alzheimer’s or other Chronic Diagnoses

I currently have availability on Wednesdays and Thursdays in person or online. I work in English.

Hello! I’m Jack. A warm, calm counsellor who will hold space for you to be 100% yourself. Our sessions are there to provide a non-judgemental space for you to explore what’s troubling you, helping you to get to know yourself better and feel more empowered and at peace.

I tailor my approach to you, drawing what I think will be helpful from humanistic, psychodynamic, parts work, mindfulness and somatic approaches.

My approach is relational at its heart, and my goal is that clients can feel safe enough in our relationship to start to explore some of the patterns that might emerge between us, use our relationship as a space to try out new things, and receive support that might not have been available in the past.

I offer both short term (12, 18 and 24 weeks) and open-ended work, either online or in person.

What you can expect:

Our sessions are a space where you can explore themes from your life that are troubling you, as well as an opportunity to be with whatever is present for you on the day.

We might do a mix of mostly talking, with some mindfulness practices, some time spent noticing what you’re feeling in your body, and some time taking slow breaths to help regulate the nervous system, depending on what feels helpful to you and what I think would best support you. For some people, being in touch with their body can feel uncomfortable, difficult, or unsafe. I will always offer suggestions, not demand that you try things, and my way of working focuses on consent.

What can you talk about in our sessions?

You can talk about whatever you want to in our sessions, and when we start working together, we can see if there are certain themes or areas of your life that you’d like to specifically focus on.

Previously, I have worked with clients bringing material from areas such as grief, low self-confidence, childhood bereavement, sexuality, gender identity, race and cultural identity, sex (including kink and chemsex), anxiety and depression, abuse, relationships (including polyamory and ethical non-monogamy), disordered eating, neurodivergence, work, family, activism, racism and structural injustice, ageing, self-harm, and suicidal feelings.

In addition to my private practice, I have three years experience in a service offering low cost therapy for LGBTQIA+ and questioning people, and have both professional and lived experience with issues affecting these communities.

I am sex worker allied, anti-racist and trans-inclusive and I strive to provide a space where people with experiences of marginalisation feel welcome, respected and safe.

I try to make my practice as accessible as possible. For detailed accessibility information, please see the accessibility section on my website, and you’re welcome to get in touch with any questions.

My first session

I offer a lower-cost first session (currently £40) so that we can meet, explore any goals or desires you might have for therapy, and get to know each other a bit.

When we first meet, I might ask you open questions such as, ‘What brings you to therapy at this time?’ as well as providing you with information about how I work and what I can offer you. Our first session is a good opportunity for you to ask any questions you might have about therapy in general or my way of working, and for us to address any worries you might have about counselling.

I will always be honest about whether I think I can help you, and will only agree to work with you if I feel confident that I can be of genuine help and support to you.

Coming to counselling for the first time (or coming back to counselling after a break) is not always an easy thing, and I commend you for doing this for yourself, making this time for you, and choosing to get to know yourself better.

Training, qualifications & experience I have a certificate in Group Therapy, a Diploma and an Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling. I am a registered member of the BACP and adhere to the BACP ethical code.

I have experience working in the charity sector as a counsellor in a low cost service for LGBTQIA+ and questioning people, and have had additional CPD in a range of areas including chemsex, alcohol and addiction. I am currently training in the TIST model, a parts-based approach to working with trauma.

Aside from my role as a counsellor, I have over a decade of experience in advocacy and support work for adults and children going through the asylum process, experience in running groups, and in community activism around areas such as mental health, food and land justice.

I’m a therapist who specializes in working with the LGBT community as well as people of any sexual orientation in or exploring non-monogamous relationships. I am kink-aware and know the importance that can play in many people’s lives. Whether you are looking for relationship counseling, or are looking for an individual therapist who you know will not judge your relationship structure, I would love to speak further to see if I may be a good fit.

I see clients at Root & Bloom Therapy in Rochester Hills, Michigan. I can also meet with people from anywhere in Michigan through secure telehealth sessions. Please reach out by email if you have more questions about my style, and contact the office phone number listed if interested in scheduling.

Professional specialties and skills: Desire Discrepancies, Low Sexual Libido, Orgasm, Genito Pelvic Pain, Sexual Exploration with BDSM/Kink, Opening Up Relationships/Marriages, Sex Therapy as related to Shame/Guilt, Healthy Communication Skills, Pleasure & Masturbation Exercises, Sexual Education, Burnout, Stress, Anxiety, Confidence, Self Care, Relaxation Techniques for Performance Anxiety, Foreplay, Aftercare, Mindfulness-Based Approaches, etc.

Populations served: 16+ LGBTQ+, Polyamory, BDSM/Kink, and Sex Later in Life, Individuals & Couples work. I love working with those who are spiritual souls that love the “woo woo,” to help connect sex with our minds, bodies, and souls. I incorporate crystal healing paired with meditations, mindfulness-based practices, visualization exercises, working with sexual affirmations, mantras, declarations for sexual self-confidence, and more!

I specialize in working with trans people across the lifespan, chronic illness, neurodiversity, and complex trauma. I speak English. I serve adolescents, young adults, and adults.

I work with adults who are seeking to foster a greater sense of connection in their lives - with themselves, their loved ones, and their true desires. Most of my clients are looking for help with sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, identity exploration, and self-acceptance. I am part of and specialize in working with the LGBTQIA2S+ community, although those who don’t identify with those labels are welcome in my practice as well. I have extensive experience with polyamorous and kinky clients. I offer free 15-minute consultations to make sure we’d be a good fit to work together. Feel free to reach out so we can connect!

I work with adults who are seeking to foster a greater sense of connection in their lives - with themselves, their loved ones, and their true desires. Most of my clients are looking for help with sexual concerns, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, identity exploration, and self-acceptance. I am part of and specialize in working with the LGBTQIA2S+ community, although those who don’t identify with those labels are welcome in my practice as well. I have extensive experience with polyamorous and kinky clients. I offer free 15-minute consultations to make sure we’d be a good fit to work together. Feel free to reach out so we can connect!

I offer individual and couples therapy and specialize in helping clients initiate and navigate major transitions in their relationships, careers, and academic pursuits. I especially welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ+, transgender/non-binary, kinky, polyamorous/non-monogamous.

My approach to therapy is warm and collaborative, and I like to balance practical problem-solving with deeper emotional processing. Let’s work together to come up with creative solutions that fit your unique life and get you back on a path toward a happier and more fulfilling life!

All therapy services are virtual at this time. I offer a FREE 15-min video consultation, so email me to set up a call and see if I’m the right therapist for you!

I offer individual and couples therapy and specialize in helping clients initiate and navigate major transitions in their relationships, careers, and academic pursuits. I especially welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ+, transgender/non-binary, kinky, polyamorous/non-monogamous.

My approach to therapy is warm and collaborative, and I like to balance practical problem-solving with deeper emotional processing. Let’s work together to come up with creative solutions that fit your unique life and get you back on a path toward a happier and more fulfilling life!

All therapy services are virtual at this time. I offer a FREE 15-min video consultation, so email me to set up a call and see if I’m the right therapist for you!

I offer individual and couples therapy and specialize in helping clients initiate and navigate major transitions in their relationships, careers, and academic pursuits. I especially welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ+, transgender/non-binary, kinky, polyamorous/non-monogamous.

My approach to therapy is warm and collaborative, and I like to balance practical problem-solving with deeper emotional processing. Let’s work together to come up with creative solutions that fit your unique life and get you back on a path toward a happier and more fulfilling life!

All therapy services are virtual at this time. I offer a FREE 15-min video consultation, so email me to set up a call and see if I’m the right therapist for you!

I offer individual and couples therapy and specialize in helping clients initiate and navigate major transitions in their relationships, careers, and academic pursuits. I especially welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ+, transgender/non-binary, kinky, polyamorous/non-monogamous.

My approach to therapy is warm and collaborative, and I like to balance practical problem-solving with deeper emotional processing. Let’s work together to come up with creative solutions that fit your unique life and get you back on a path toward a happier and more fulfilling life!

All therapy services are virtual at this time. I offer a FREE 15-min video consultation, so email me to set up a call and see if I’m the right therapist for you!

I offer individual and couples therapy and specialize in helping clients initiate and navigate major transitions in their relationships, careers, and academic pursuits. I especially welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ+, transgender/non-binary, kinky, polyamorous/non-monogamous.

My approach to therapy is warm and collaborative, and I like to balance practical problem-solving with deeper emotional processing. Let’s work together to come up with creative solutions that fit your unique life and get you back on a path toward a happier and more fulfilling life!

All therapy services are virtual at this time. I offer a FREE 15-min video consultation, so email me to set up a call and see if I’m the right therapist for you!

I am a licensed psychotherapist with about 10 years of personal and professional experience with non-monogamy, and I specialize in working with couples. I work mostly with primary couples who want to strengthen their bond as one partner or both begin to include others in some deeper emotional and/or sexual way. I’ve helped many couples successfully move through the early stages of opening their relationship, and I’ve helped those who’ve been open for some time and need to repair a recent misstep or reevaluate their relationship. My approach emphasizes communication that is heard, felt and understood. I can also offer lots of tools, ideas and insights for couples who are new to open relationships. With an attitude of humor, curiosity and compassion, I want to help you find the structure that works for you. I have been in both monogamous and open relationships and am not biased toward one or the other. I believe it is important for each couple to find the relationship structure that best suits their needs and goals. I am committed to assisting those with any gender identity in finding love and connection. I have experience working with couples who desire to feel close again, need to regain trust after the crisis of an affair or loss, or need help with a specific issue such as sex, money or open relationship. We will locate where communication breaks down, explore the underlying feelings, and emphasize the resources and positive feelings that are sometimes withheld. I only accept out-of-network insurance coverage. I am available for Skype sessions for California residents.

This is a primary care office, that offers psychiatric care, psychiatric medication management, and psychiatric coordination. I specifically cater to the GLBTQQI, kink, poly, and underserved communities, but make myself available for clients with any specific psychiatric needs, all ages.

I have most of my therapy training in CBT and DBT and Mindfulness. I bring an accepting, non-judgmental presence to the therapeutic relationship and offer pragmatic skills-training for helping people to be happier and have less suffering in a variety of domains. My Spanish, Italian, and French skills are poor enough that for all practical purposes, I only speak English. I serve primarily ages 14 through 70. I see people dealing with depression, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, ADHD, OCD, relationship issues, procrastination, substance use disorders and personality disorders.

I’m not on any insurance panels. Please contact me to learn more about fees and my sliding scale clinic by starting with the “prospective patients” section at jacobtowerymd.com I look forward to hearing from you. :)

I see clients in my office. I do some phone and email work. Please call or email for an appt. Thank you. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation

My professional services include in-home individual, couples or family therapy. I have been providing therapy for all ranges of individuals for the past 8 years. I consider my specialties to include trauma/PTSD, anxiety and working with individuals in the poly/kink/LGBTQ/alt.sexuality/ethical non-monogamy lifestyle. I believe therapy is a joint, collaborative process between myself and my client. I use a holistic approach to therapy to integrate mind and body, drawing on different therapeutic strategies in order to find what works for each individual person. Other languages: ASL

I'm a psychotherapist and consultant from Southern NJ/Philadelphia area, specializing in mental health, addictions, and energy medicine.

Populations Served: Individuals, Couples, Families, Age 14+ and up, Specializations include LGBTQIA2S+, Alternative Relationship Styles, BDSM/Kink/Sex Positive, Living with HIV/AIDS

Therapy sessions for couples or individuals are a combination of deep listening on my part, examining and gaining insight into your story together, and skill building based on your needs. Together we build upon relationship skills, self compassion, and the ability to stay grounded in the present. We keep a keen eye on how beliefs formed in the past impact today.

For me, this work is soul work. Not just for my clients, but for me. There is something in each of us that is reflected universally, and I am connected to that through our work together. I companion clients to explore how their identity and circumstances were shaped by familiar, political, cultural, and spiritual environments they have been exposed to. I believe each client has a healing force within them that guides our work together.

I provide counseling in Santa Barbara, California, and online for residents of California. I support all constellations of loving partnerships, including partners who need support to be more loving. If you find yourself in love, looking to improve your love, or hoping to find a healthier love, I am willing to support you with compassionate and tactful guidance.

I recognize that not all romantic or intimate relationships are about “that one true love.” I offer guidance for clients practicing or thinking about exploring open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. I am poly-friendly and kink-affirming. If you would like to explore creative intimacy openly, safely, and with integrity, I will support you.

I am a culturally competent clinician determined to support all of my clients to be the best that they can be by their own standards and definitions. I will not provide you a path towards conventional success. Rather, I will listen carefully to who you want to become and ask relevant questions so that you can live your unique life with purpose and pride.

I work exclusively with adults (18+) in monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and other non-monogamous relationship structures. I take a systemic trauma-informed approach, and primarily use the developmental model of couples therapy and attachment theory in my relational work. I only offer telehealth self-pay services, with sliding scale if needed.

I work exclusively with adults (18+) in monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and other non-monogamous relationship structures. I take a systemic trauma-informed approach, and primarily use the developmental model of couples therapy and attachment theory in my relational work. I only offer telehealth self-pay services, with sliding scale if needed.

I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with the LGBTQA community, as well as with complex trauma and trauma-related diagnoses. I additionally work with the polyamory and kink communities and work with clients and couples to navigate difficult situations, improve communication, and increase understanding of boundaries and boundary setting. I work with pre-teens, teens, and adults across the lifespan. You can find more information out on my Psychology Today profile regarding fees and insurances taken. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/james-mcelligott-portland-me/457351