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My name is Gavin Bowes. I offer online holistic counseling for individuals and relationships, specializing in non-monogamy, relationship anarchy and non-normative relationships. I work with clients throughout the US and offer income-based, sliding scale rates. My practice is a judgment-free environment and I welcome you as you are.
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ASHLAND, OREGON, 97520
PO BOX 23868 TEMPE, AZ USA . I DO REMOTE SESSIONS VIA ZOOM
44 EAST 32ND STREET, 11TH FLOOR, NEW YORK, NY, 10016, US
Contemplative Psychotherapy is rooted in the belief that all people are born with the wisdom they need, known as your “brilliant sanity.” As your therapist, I can help you uncover this rich resource and tap into your innate wisdom, promoting healing and improved well-being. With a decade of experience in meditation and mindfulness practice, I integrate Buddhist philosophy with modern Western psychology, bringing present moment awareness into our time together and focusing on our relationship as the tool for healing. While Western psychology often focuses on diagnoses and symptoms, Contemplative Psychotherapy views the effects of past trauma and emotional challenges as the barriers to accessing your internal wisdom and its healing potential. Together, we aim toward awakening the self as it fully is, complete with its pain and challenges, and its brilliance and beauty.
I know that in navigating the world as a queer person, it can be challenging to find the right fit in a therapist. Whether you identify as non-binary, trans, genderfluid or anywhere on the spectrum of non-heteronormativity, it’s critical to talk with someone who gets it. When it’s time to further explore a facet of your identity, sexuality or relationship, you can feel safe expressing yourself with me as you are without your therapist assigning your struggles to your lifestyle or identity. I counsel sex workers, individuals in polyamorous or other multiple-partner relationships, and participants in kink or BDSM lifestyles. When you walk into my office, you can rest assured that you will be met with compassion and non-judgement.
827 GRANT STREET; DENVER, CO 80203
CALGARY, AB, CANADA
CURRENTLY PRACTICING ONLY ONLINE
SHAWNEE, KS
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Who I Am I am a white, neurodivergent, queer, intersex, kinky, non-monogamous, chronically ill person. I am a painter, lover of old things, cat haver, and avid reader, and gardener. I value creativity in all parts of my life. I believe that curiosity and creativity are at the heart of how I move through the world as a person and therapist.
What I Do I have a deep desire to explore, understand, and empower my clients. I am direct, candid, warm and open. I work to create safe and nonjudgmental brave spaces with my clients through shared curiosity. I am passionate about working with my clients to recognize larger systems that they interact with throughout their lives and how these systems impact their personal identities. I am Kink/BDSM, non-monogamy, body neutral and queer aligned. I believe that therapy is political and is a space where clients can be intentional about their identities. Some topics I enjoy working with are gender affirming care, chronic pain, working through infidelity, aging clients, navigating multiple racial and cultural identities, and processing sexual trauma.
I choose to bring my full self to the therapy space including my candor, humor, and a deep sense of empathy to support clients. I draw from a mixture of therapeutic models including Narrative Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Psychodynamic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Somatic Experiencing Therapy, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. I find that using a mixture of approaches with clients enables me to tailor care to each unique system I work with.
1518 WALNUT STREET #1100, PHILADELPHIA, PA 19102 UNITED STATES
Navigating polyamorous relationships? Looking to open your relationship to ENM or polyamory? Recovering from a recent breakup? Want to move on and create a solid relationship with yourself and set healthier boundaries with others? I support individuals like you in better articulating your needs to yourself and others. We will then activate the unique strengths you already possess to create a more empowered You. As a Harvard-trained strength and relationships coach, I understand what it takes to move on from a toxic relationship or a devastating breakup. Join me for a step-by-step journey of reconstructing your empowered self.
I have a lot of experience helping people overcome difficulties in their close relationships and also in dealing with people coming out of relationships. We work to make the process less painful, more constructive, and to build a foundation for a strong new start.
I’m trained in Emotional Focused Therapy, strength-based approach of positive psychology, Attachment Theory, and cognitive behavioral therapy.
I speak English and Russian.
Currently, I conduct my sessions on video platforms, such as Zoom.
NEW YORK, NY 10010
REMOTE ONLY
SANTA FE, NM, USA
2421 HOLLYWOOD BLVD., SUITE 1A, HOLLYWOOD, FL 33020, USA
Professional Licensure: None.
Degrees: B.A. from the University of Miami, studied at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco
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I offer a unique combination in the relationship coaching world. I have over two decades of living nonmonogamously myself. I blend this with my research-driven method for helping people thrive.
I don’t believe in credentialism (see https://helpfulprofessor.com/credentialism/ and https://sociologydictionary.org/credentialism/). I’m not going to trot out a list of pieces of paper I’ve bought as if they mean something. But I invite you to consider this as you weigh your options:
I’m delighted to work with adult humans of all identities and orientations. We’ll map out the journey to having the nonmonogamous relationship you want. Together, we’ll figure out how to get past the tough terrain, like:
Profound change rarely happens in 50-minute stand-alone chunks. Research shows that many clients of traditional therapists quit too soon. I generally focus on coaching bundles that maximize your chances for success. I also offer more affordable online courses and self-paced trainings on key topics.
Grab a no-cost, 60-minute I.C.E (Identify-Clarify-Eliminate Obstacles) Zoom call at https://calendly.com/affirmativeintimacy/ice-call. Let’s see how we might work together. If my lived experience ends up not being a good fit for what you need, no problem. I’ll do what I can to refer you to someone who can help.
8665 SUDLEY RD., #132, MANASSAS, VA 20110 USA
When you step into my office you will be warmly greeted in a judgement-free setting. The therapeutic process starts with a thorough assessment to really get to know who you are and where you are at, because the issues you have don’t define who you are as a person. We will work together to identify the problem areas and employ the therapeutic process to foster growth.
I believe the therapeutic process needs to be direct, honest, and specifically tailored to the nuances of you and your situation. Certification in Sex Therapy and in Consensual Non-Monogamy through Sexual Health Alliance is in progress. I have a niche for seeing polyamorous or open-relationship clients!
My personal brand of therapy allows you to separate you from your issues and rewrite the story of your life to reflect who you truly are.
1705 W KOENIG LN. AUSTIN, TX 78756
49 WEST 24TH STREET, OFFICE 512, NEW YORK, NY, 10010
P.O. BOX 294, MONTROSE, CA, 91021, US
As a queer, trans woman I work with people of all genders and sexualities and specialize in serving LGBTQIA+ clients.
I support people who want to experience more healthy, consensual, and joyful intimacy in their lives—including working through feelings of sexual shame, inadequacy, inexperience, trauma, or dysfunction. I tried to ensure my work is trauma-informed, body-positive, and antiracist.
As a professional cuddler, I provide explicitly negotiated, client-led platonic touch in a context of compassionate presence.
As an intimacy and embodiment coach, I provide a sounding board, intimacy and sex education, and skill-building through structured communication and touch-based exercises.
As a surrogate partner, I collaborate with a client and their licensed talk therapist. I meet regularly with clients in a time-bounded, therapeutic relationship that provides a bounded space for skill-building and a model for future relationships.
WASHINGTON, DC, USA
151 E 5600 SOUTH, MURRAY, UT 84107, USA. I ALSO DO TELEHEALTH APPOINTMENTS VIA ZOOM
90% of my clients are interested in alternate relationships, that are based upon non-monogamous, power-exchange dynamics. The need to engage in this type of relationship dynamic, is indicative of an energetic imbalance within the existing relationship, and/or with each individual. My specialty is coaching individuals and couples, in how to use non-monogamous, power exchange relationships, to re-establish energetic equilibrium.
Consultations are done via phone/Skype and include a written summary with recommendations for the next course of action.
THIS IS AN ONLINE BUSINESS ONLY
PACIFIC BEACH, SAN DIEGO, CA, 92109, US
I work with adults as individuals and/or couples, triad, other constellation forms. I have two formal group coaching programs and am also able to customize support for folx who may not feel they meet the criteria or would find these programs beneficial.
My 12 week Signature Program is called Non-Monogamous Newbies; focus is on creating a firm and healthy communication foundation as an individual, couple, etc. dive into non-monogamy. This program is also a good fit for folx who have started out and are feeling the need to hit the reset button and go back to basics. The program covers everything from your “why” in non-monogamy, to different types of non-monogamy, setting relationship agreements, conflict resolution, coping with insecurity and jealousy, mindset and somatic work, coming out to others, dating, and much more!
My 4 week pre-program is called The Conversation Compass; focus here is to help an individual who would like to have the “opening up” convo with a monogamous partner. I provide support, scripting, and help individuals prepare for a variety of reactions from their partners.
3200 KIRKWOOD HIGHWAY #1086, WILMINGTON, DE 19808, UNITED STATES
I practice Radical Honesty (www.radicalhonesity.com) and I am currently in my second year of training to become a Radical Honesty Trainer Candidate.
I hold certifications in lovingkindness and Samatha meditation.
Brief description of my services: Counseling | Sex Education | Radical Honesty | Meditation
I offer counseling to men(30+) and couples, with a focus on non-traditional relationship types.
Promoting authenticity through honesty, connection, and vulnerability, we work together to be present and get real. I am polyamorous, and I have pending certifications from SHA (https://sexualhealthalliance.com) in Sexual Health/Sex Education, Problem Sexual Behaviors, and Consensual Non-Monogamy. I practice Radical Honesty (www.radicalhonesity.com) and I am currently in my second year of training to become a Radical Honesty Trainer Candidate.
I hold certifications in lovingkindness and Samatha meditation.
800 GRAND CONCOURSE 2DN BRONX NY 10451
Poly, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship, consensual non-monogamy, non-traditional relationships, or however you are choosing to label yourself, I support people in creating the relationship of their dreams. I am very passionate about breaking the barriers that have confined couples; and creating an alternative narrative that will help them grow individually and together.
Professional specialties and skills
Populations served: All ages, gender, relationship style, and sexual orientation
1640 POWERS FERRY ROAD BUILDING 27 STE 200 MARIETTA, GA 30067
SAN DIEGO CALIFORNIA 92107
I am a Kink Friendly Professional Relationship Coach and Energetic Healer. I help others create meaning and magick in their lives by challenging and moving beyond limiting cultural beliefs.
In addition to my 1:1 work with clients, I also help couples and poly groups to build intimate trusting relationships and improve their communication skills.
I teach the practice of choice and responsibility. Of being conscious and intentional in all we do; specifically in creating the life and relationships we want in our lives.
I am also a certified hypnotist and certified trainer of NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP(tm)). I train professionals on how to use unconscious processes to meet their personal and business goals; in coaching I teach people how to use their minds.
I do 90% of my work over the phone and offer free consultations. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation
240 JEANETTE PLACE, MUNDELEIN, IL, 60060, US
12 MAPLE STREET, APT 2, WESTFIELD MASSACHUSETTS, USA (REMOTE WORK)
MSW Graduate from UIC, Practicing in Illinois
Supervisor info: Dale Roberson, LCSW
Supervisor License Number: 149.022949 Expires 11/30/2025
840 IRVING PARK RD STE 302 & 304, CHICAGO ILLINOIS 60613
I specialize in Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities. This includes LGBTQ+, Ethical Non-Monogamy, BDSM, and more.
As a Life and Mindset Coach I help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle. These obstacles include unconscious thought patterns, limiting beliefs, and negative programming. Taking these insights into what makes you tick, I use a range of reprogramming techniques to banish those blocks and replace them with ones that positively serve you. In creating these strategies, I target your unique skills and gifts.By helping you to make the most of your strengths, I provide the support you need to achieve long-lasting change.
Coaching sessions are done using video technology
I specialize in Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities. This includes LGBTQ+, Ethical Non-Monogamy, BDSM, and more.
As a Life and Mindset Coach I help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle. These obstacles include unconscious thought patterns, limiting beliefs, and negative programming. Taking these insights into what makes you tick, I use a range of reprogramming techniques to banish those blocks and replace them with ones that positively serve you. In creating these strategies, I target your unique skills and gifts.By helping you to make the most of your strengths, I provide the support you need to achieve long-lasting change.
Coaching sessions are done using video technology