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Navigating polyamorous relationships? Looking to open your relationship to ENM or polyamory? Recovering from a recent breakup? Want to move on and create a solid relationship with yourself and set healthier boundaries with others? I support individuals like you in better articulating your needs to yourself and others. We will then activate the unique strengths you already possess to create a more empowered You. As a Harvard-trained strength and relationships coach, I understand what it takes to move on from a toxic relationship or a devastating breakup. Join me for a step-by-step journey of reconstructing your empowered self.
I have a lot of experience helping people overcome difficulties in their close relationships and also in dealing with people coming out of relationships. We work to make the process less painful, more constructive, and to build a foundation for a strong new start.
I’m trained in Emotional Focused Therapy, strength-based approach of positive psychology, Attachment Theory, and cognitive behavioral therapy.
I speak English and Russian.
Currently, I conduct my sessions on video platforms, such as Zoom.
NEW YORK, NY 10010
REMOTE ONLY
SANTA FE, NM, USA
2421 HOLLYWOOD BLVD., SUITE 1A, HOLLYWOOD, FL 33020, USA
Certified sexologist and relationship coach, Somatica Institute
Additional training in Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy
James Buckingham is a certified sexologist and relationship coach, trained at the Somatica Institute, who works every day with people in open relationships, polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. He supports individuals and couples online across the United States, with evening and weekend sessions available in Pacific time.
People usually come to him because one partner wants to open the relationship and the other is not ready; for jealousy and insecurity; to renegotiate agreements; for differences in desire; or while moving between relationship styles without losing connection. Sessions are practical, structured and judgement-free, with no need to explain the basics first.
James is knowledgeable about kink and polyamory and offers non-clinical coaching. Coaching does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. A free 15-minute introductory call is available.
ONLINE ONLY, SERVING CLIENTS ACROSS THE UNITED STATES
Professional Licensure: None.
Degrees: B.A. from the University of Miami, studied at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco
Services:
I offer a unique combination in the relationship coaching world. I have over two decades of living nonmonogamously myself. I blend this with my research-driven method for helping people thrive.
I don’t believe in credentialism (see https://helpfulprofessor.com/credentialism/ and https://sociologydictionary.org/credentialism/). I’m not going to trot out a list of pieces of paper I’ve bought as if they mean something. But I invite you to consider this as you weigh your options:
I’m delighted to work with adult humans of all identities and orientations. We’ll map out the journey to having the nonmonogamous relationship you want. Together, we’ll figure out how to get past the tough terrain, like:
Profound change rarely happens in 50-minute stand-alone chunks. Research shows that many clients of traditional therapists quit too soon. I generally focus on coaching bundles that maximize your chances for success. I also offer more affordable online courses and self-paced trainings on key topics.
Grab a no-cost, 60-minute I.C.E (Identify-Clarify-Eliminate Obstacles) Zoom call at https://calendly.com/affirmativeintimacy/ice-call. Let’s see how we might work together. If my lived experience ends up not being a good fit for what you need, no problem. I’ll do what I can to refer you to someone who can help.
8665 SUDLEY RD., #132, MANASSAS, VA 20110 USA
When you step into my office you will be warmly greeted in a judgement-free setting. The therapeutic process starts with a thorough assessment to really get to know who you are and where you are at, because the issues you have don’t define who you are as a person. We will work together to identify the problem areas and employ the therapeutic process to foster growth.
I believe the therapeutic process needs to be direct, honest, and specifically tailored to the nuances of you and your situation. Certification in Sex Therapy and in Consensual Non-Monogamy through Sexual Health Alliance is in progress. I have a niche for seeing polyamorous or open-relationship clients!
My personal brand of therapy allows you to separate you from your issues and rewrite the story of your life to reflect who you truly are.
1705 W KOENIG LN. AUSTIN, TX 78756
Certified Life & Relationship Coach
Certified Professional Co-Active Coach from Co-Active Institute
Certified Enneagram Practitioner from Integrative 9 Enneagram Solutions
Certificate in Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion from Cornell
I support people who are building relationships outside the default — whether that’s polyamory, non-monogamy, co-parenting, or deeply interwoven chosen family. Many of the people I work with are thoughtful, caring, and tired of carrying too much alone.
My work focuses on communication, boundaries, and self-leadership in relationships, with particular care around consent, emotional labor, and attachment patterns. I work with adults of all genders and orientations, including individuals, couples, and polycules, and aim to offer a space that feels steady, respectful, and real.
My approach is informed by both professional practice and over a decade of lived experience navigating non-monogamy, long-term partnership, and chosen family.
Sessions are collaborative and practical, with room for both reflection and real-life next steps.
Sessions are offered via Zoom, with in-person options available for those in the SF Bay Area.
Languages Spoken: English
Populations Served: Adults (18+); individuals, couples, triads, polycules
OAKLAND, CA, UNITED STATES
I provide surrogate partner therapy for women and couples. I collaborate with licensed clinicians to support their clients in building intimacy and relational skills. I also provide sex and relationship coaching.
I am certified in surrogate partner therapy and Thai massage.
I speak English.
I serve women and couples of all 30+ years of age.
2217 WISTERIA AVE, GLENSIDE, PA 19038
49 WEST 24TH STREET, OFFICE 512, NEW YORK, NY, 10010
Transpersonal Coaching and Consultations
Specializing in nervous system attunement, life re-architecture, and rebuilding after major life transitions like breakups and divorce.
Resolving painful memories, emotional enmeshment, grief, and trauma
Language: English
Population: adults of any age, gender, or persuasion
VIRTUAL SESSIONS. IN PERSON SESSIONS AVAILABLE IN DRAPER, UTAH
P.O. BOX 294, MONTROSE, CA, 91021, US
As a queer, trans woman I work with people of all genders and sexualities and specialize in serving LGBTQIA+ clients.
I support people who want to experience more healthy, consensual, and joyful intimacy in their lives—including working through feelings of sexual shame, inadequacy, inexperience, trauma, or dysfunction. I tried to ensure my work is trauma-informed, body-positive, and antiracist.
As a professional cuddler, I provide explicitly negotiated, client-led platonic touch in a context of compassionate presence.
As an intimacy and embodiment coach, I provide a sounding board, intimacy and sex education, and skill-building through structured communication and touch-based exercises.
As a surrogate partner, I collaborate with a client and their licensed talk therapist. I meet regularly with clients in a time-bounded, therapeutic relationship that provides a bounded space for skill-building and a model for future relationships.
WASHINGTON, DC, USA
151 E 5600 SOUTH, MURRAY, UT 84107, USA. I ALSO DO TELEHEALTH APPOINTMENTS VIA ZOOM
90% of my clients are interested in alternate relationships, that are based upon non-monogamous, power-exchange dynamics. The need to engage in this type of relationship dynamic, is indicative of an energetic imbalance within the existing relationship, and/or with each individual. My specialty is coaching individuals and couples, in how to use non-monogamous, power exchange relationships, to re-establish energetic equilibrium.
Consultations are done via phone/Skype and include a written summary with recommendations for the next course of action.
THIS IS AN ONLINE BUSINESS ONLY
PACIFIC BEACH, SAN DIEGO, CA, 92109, US
MINNEAPOLIS/ST. PAUL, MINNESOTA, USA
MINNEAPOLIS/ST. PAUL, MINNESOTA, USA
Inclusive, sex-positive coaching for individuals, couples, multi-partner dynamics. Relationship design, structure, building tools, gaining clarity, deepening connection.
Navigating non-monogamy, communication, conflict, identity shifts, desire, building safety.
Language: English
18+
Workshops, toolkits, and education.
I WORK FROM MY HOME ADDRESS. BASED IN NEW WESTMINSTER, BC (CANADA)
I practice Radical Honesty (www.radicalhonesity.com) and I am currently in my second year of training to become a Radical Honesty Trainer Candidate.
I hold certifications in lovingkindness and Samatha meditation.
Brief description of my services: Counseling | Sex Education | Radical Honesty | Meditation
I offer counseling to men(30+) and couples, with a focus on non-traditional relationship types.
Promoting authenticity through honesty, connection, and vulnerability, we work together to be present and get real. I am polyamorous, and I have pending certifications from SHA (https://sexualhealthalliance.com) in Sexual Health/Sex Education, Problem Sexual Behaviors, and Consensual Non-Monogamy. I practice Radical Honesty (www.radicalhonesity.com) and I am currently in my second year of training to become a Radical Honesty Trainer Candidate.
I hold certifications in lovingkindness and Samatha meditation.
800 GRAND CONCOURSE 2DN BRONX NY 10451
Poly, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship, consensual non-monogamy, non-traditional relationships, or however you are choosing to label yourself, I support people in creating the relationship of their dreams. I am very passionate about breaking the barriers that have confined couples; and creating an alternative narrative that will help them grow individually and together.
Professional specialties and skills
Populations served: All ages, gender, relationship style, and sexual orientation
1640 POWERS FERRY ROAD BUILDING 27 STE 200 MARIETTA, GA 30067
SAN DIEGO CALIFORNIA 92107
I help individuals and couples find more joy, happiness, and pleasure in their lives through intimacy and relationship coaching. My practice is inclusive of all identities—serving people of all genders (male, female, non-binary), sexual orientations (LGBTQ+), and relationship styles, including monogamous, polyamorous, polyandry, swinger and ethically non-monogamous (ENM) individuals.
Whether you’re looking to enhance intimacy, explore your desires, or navigate complex dynamics, I offer a supportive, affirming space where you can grow. My role is to help you achieve your intimacy, sexual and relational goals through a blend of empowerment, education, intuitive guidance, behavioral tools, emotional balancing, and reframing techniques.
I specialize in supporting people exploring or currently living a non-monogamous lifestyle—whether you’re just starting to open up your relationship or navigating ongoing dynamics. Through coaching, mentoring, and education, my clients feel understood, supported, and empowered to create the relationships they truly want.
Sessions are held virtually, allowing me to work with clients around the world. Some people prefer sessions over the phone. Either way will work. You’re welcome to contact me by phone, text or email to learn more, schedule a free consultation, or simply ask a question—all in a judgment-free, sex-positive, poly- and kink-friendly space.
Instagram: @empowerquestlifecoach Facebook: Empower Quest Life Coach
My office has coaches from all walks of life. If you are looking for something else specially, just let me know and I can refer you!
DENTON, TX
I am a Kink Friendly Professional Relationship Coach and Energetic Healer. I help others create meaning and magick in their lives by challenging and moving beyond limiting cultural beliefs.
In addition to my 1:1 work with clients, I also help couples and poly groups to build intimate trusting relationships and improve their communication skills.
I teach the practice of choice and responsibility. Of being conscious and intentional in all we do; specifically in creating the life and relationships we want in our lives.
I am also a certified hypnotist and certified trainer of NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP(tm)). I train professionals on how to use unconscious processes to meet their personal and business goals; in coaching I teach people how to use their minds.
I do 90% of my work over the phone and offer free consultations. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation
240 JEANETTE PLACE, MUNDELEIN, IL, 60060, US
12 MAPLE STREET, APT 2, WESTFIELD MASSACHUSETTS, USA (REMOTE WORK)
MSW Graduate from UIC, Practicing in Illinois
Supervisor info: Dale Roberson, LCSW
Supervisor License Number: 149.022949 Expires 11/30/2025
840 IRVING PARK RD STE 302 & 304, CHICAGO ILLINOIS 60613
I specialize in Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities. This includes LGBTQ+, Ethical Non-Monogamy, BDSM, and more.
As a Life and Mindset Coach I help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle. These obstacles include unconscious thought patterns, limiting beliefs, and negative programming. Taking these insights into what makes you tick, I use a range of reprogramming techniques to banish those blocks and replace them with ones that positively serve you. In creating these strategies, I target your unique skills and gifts.By helping you to make the most of your strengths, I provide the support you need to achieve long-lasting change.
Coaching sessions are done using video technology
I specialize in Gender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities. This includes LGBTQ+, Ethical Non-Monogamy, BDSM, and more.
As a Life and Mindset Coach I help you clarify your goals, identify the obstacles holding you back, and then come up with strategies for overcoming each obstacle. These obstacles include unconscious thought patterns, limiting beliefs, and negative programming. Taking these insights into what makes you tick, I use a range of reprogramming techniques to banish those blocks and replace them with ones that positively serve you. In creating these strategies, I target your unique skills and gifts.By helping you to make the most of your strengths, I provide the support you need to achieve long-lasting change.
Coaching sessions are done using video technology
I provide strength-based, solution-focused therapy and personal coaching.
Rather than emphasizing what’s “wrong” or “missing,” my Therapy Services focus on mobilizing the unique strengths and resources you already possess to facilitate the changes you want to see in your life.
My Personal Coaching Services focus what you want, what’s holding you back, and on achieving your desires as quickly and effectively as possible. Although issues from the past may be discussed, coaching is present- and future-focused and addresses these issues only as they relate to your current life and future goals.
I view your sexuality and gender identity as an important part of who you are, but only as one part of a complex and layered identity.
Please visit my website for more information about me and my services. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation
W. 22ND ST., AT NINTH AVE, NEW YORK, NY, 10011, US