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Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a clinical sexologist with doctorate in human sexuality and has been running Eros Coaching in Singapore since 2009. She has worked with a lot of couples (international and local) who have unconsummated marriage; men and women with sexual inhibitions and sexual desire discrepancies; men with erection and ejaculation concerns; as well as with GLBTQQ and kink folks. A born and bred Singaporean Chinese, Martha welcomes individuals as well as couples of all sexual orientations, and is available via Skype or face-to-face in Singapore.
Since 2011, she became the first certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore (since 2009), and Men’s Health Malaysia (since 2010). She also contributes regularly towards YourTango and Elephant Journal. She is also the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. Her first book Love, Sex and Everything In-Between was published by Marshall Cavendish in Oct 2013, and her second Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between in Aug 2015. Fluent in English and speak Chinese.
360 ORCHARD RD, INTERNATIONAL BUILDING #10-10 SINGAPORE 238869, SINGAPORE
11603 KRISTIDAWN, SAN ANTONIO, TX, USA
I’m Mary Clark, I’m a Relationship Anarchy-ish coach, and I can help you to create the life and the relationships you want. I use Zoom for our meetings, so I work with clients all over the world. If you’re feeling confused or “stuck”, I can help you get unstuck. We can sort through the confusion together. We can talk one-on-one, or you can bring one or more friends/partners/loved ones, and I’ll help you figure out what’s healthiest for each of you.
It’s rare to find counselors and therapists who understand Relationship Anarchy, with its lack of hierarchy, lack of relationship escalators, and its abundance of individual styles. On the other hand, I don’t care if you’re “Relationship Anarchist enough”. There’s no judgment here. My focus is on helping you follow your own inner compass toward maximum happiness and health.
I’m queer, but you don’t have to be. I’m a Relationship Anarchist, and was polyamorous before I found out about RA. I’m extremely accepting of all people, including but not limited to straight, gay, transgender, nonbinary, intersex, asexual, graysexual, aromantic, gray-romantic, bisexual, pansexual, and all kinds of other folks. Basically, just tell me about yourself, because I’m not going to make assumptions.
I can help you to:
Navigate RA and/or polyamory regardless of your current relationship configuration(s), including if you’re already married, and/or if you have children at home.
Deal with jealousy when it’s not just jealousy? (Hint: these are often signs of past trauma and attachment injuries, in which case, we need special care!)
Navigate manage mismatched attachment styles, when one of you wants more closeness, and another wants more space.
Figure out whether it’s a difficult-but-healable relationship, or one that you should walk away from.
Talk to friends and family about your RA and/or polyamorous relationships.
ALWAYS stay true to yourself!!!
PORTLAND, OREGON 97266
680 8TH STREET, SUITE 240, SAN FRANCISCO, CA, 94103, US
You deserve rich, rewarding relationships that are as unique as you are. My mission is to provide support and guidance for people in non-traditional relationships, whether that’s polyamorous, non-monogamous, swingers, relationship anarchists, or just interested in exploring what might be right for you. I’m sex and kink-positive, LGBTQ+ friendly and affirming, and passionate about helping people.
My approach to coaching focuses on empowering you with knowledge, skills, and tools, working with you to set and achieve your own goals, and helping you stay accountable.
In our sessions I will draw on my extensive personal experience over many years, as well as my training in non-violent communication, facilitation, process work, and attachment theory. And most of all, I work to listen, and create a safe, nurturing, and non-judgemental space for you to explore this part of who you are.
I look forward to working with you.
NELSON, BC, CANADA
ONLINE WORK ONLY - BASED IN NELSON, NEW ZEALAND
AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND
As your relationship coach, I want to empower you in your relationships. I’m here to shine light on what might be limiting you, and I’ll guide you through exercises, tools and activities to assist you in finding more enjoyment and satisfaction in all your relationships- in your relationship to yourself, to your friends, families, partners, and even to your whole community.
I work with individuals of diverse gender, sexual orientation, and cultural backgrounds. My clients are people exploring alternative approaches to Monogamy, as well as those exploring forms of Non Monogamy, such as Polyamory.
I am available for coaching sessions for individuals, couples, and groups.
BC, CANADA
905 WEST EISENHOWER CIRCLE SUITE 110 ANN ARBOR, MI 48103
PO BOX 207, BISON, KS 67520
516 BROADWAY, ROOM #10, KINGSTON, NY
I am a Cuddlist-trained touch therapist specializing in nurturing, platonic touch and consensual communication. I work with, acknowledge and empower people of all identities and backgrounds to advocate for their mental health and physical well-being in a safe, respectful and non judgemental space.
My work addresses issues like social isolation, touch deprivation, anxiety, depression, trauma and chronic medical conditions. If you feel disconnected, touch deprived or simply unseen or heard I offer support, relaxation and comfort.
Please contact me for a free video consultation.
PHILADELPHIA, PA USA
1617 VALLE VISTA BLVD. PEKIN IL 61554, USA
My Facebook and Instagram pages are @regardinglove2021
I provide relationship coaching. I work with individuals, couples and groups virtually. I primarily focus on non-monogamous and polyamorous loving relationships. I have over 15 years of experience navigating many types of loving relationships. Looking forward to sharing what I have learned along the way and helping others.
ONTARIO, CANADA
I see therapy as a space to explore the soul—the questions of who we are, how we belong, and how we want to live. My work is especially with people who feel caught between worlds—culturally, relationally, or within themselves. I support individuals and partners exploring identity, intimacy, trauma, and life transitions, often drawing on Brainspotting, sex therapy, parts work, and somatic practices that help you listen to and regulate your nervous system. My style is both playful and grounding, with room for humor, curiosity, and depth. Healing, to me, is a spiral—each step bringing more clarity, compassion, and capacity. You don’t have to do it alone; we’ll move at your pace.
Language(s) spoken: Hmong, English
Populations served - ages, concerns, etc. Kink Friendly/Informed, Polyam, Queer, Neurodivergent, 10+, Single, Family, or Polycule
390 RED CEDAR STREET, SUITE 108, MENOMONIE, WI 54751, USA
I’m a money coach and I help people from all life situations move from money anxiety to financial empowerment. I have a specific focus on those in the consensual non-monogamy community, or those in any nontraditional relationships and lifestyles.
My work involves three areas:
Practicality - Create a budget and action plan to get you unstuck. Map out specific goals for your future.
Emotion - Move from feeling out of control and anxious to feeling confident, self-assured, and excited about the future.
Identity - Learn how you have become who you are. Take control of your money story to become who you want to be.
I can help you get unstuck and unlock your ability to build and maintain wealth. If you are tired of working hard and not getting where you want to go, let’s get on a call.
BOX 2635, PORTLAND, OR 97208 USA
What is your relationship dream? "You gotta have a dream, If you don't have a dream How you gonna make a dream come true?" Through active listening, questioning, creative role-play and other forms of interaction, we challenge and support clients in discovering their own unique dreams, then sharing them with their partner(s) - or practicing communicating them to potential new partners online or face to face.
People in existing partnerships work together to create agreements that make each person feel safe, special, and supported, especially during times of change. Challenges commonly encountered include new partners figuring out just what type of relationship they want to create together, existing relationships opening up to include new partners, or closing down a previously open relationship, or blended families establishing trust and intimacy. Clients may focus on involving children in change in their own or their parent's lives. Upon occasions, the focus has been in the work place or school, stimulating better understanding, respect and efficiency among members of a work team. Consultant is a certified Myers-Briggs trainer, and uses this and other techniques in working with various types of clients in diverse settings, Honest communication - within ourselves and between partners - is the key to finding your relationship dream and making it become reality. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation
685 GONZALES RD, SANTA FE, NM, 87501, US
685 GONZALES RD, SANTA FE, NM, 87501, US
SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA, CA, USA
SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA, USA
Master of Social Work (MSW) - Clinical (USA)
State-recognized Social Worker (Germany)
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (Connecticut, USA)
Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker - Telehealth (Vermont, USA)
Sexual Health Counselor Certification (USA)
Welcome! I’m Molly Toomey, an American therapist and social worker living in Germany. I offer poly- and kink-informed, queer- and trans-affirming, and neuro-affirming psychological counseling in English for adults in Germany and worldwide. Whether you’re queer, trans, polyamorous or another flavor of ENM, kinky, neurodivergent, or questioning it all—I’m here to help you gain insight on your past and present, break free of patterns that no longer serve you, enjoy better relationships and greater self-worth, and step into the life you want.
My practice is dedicated to providing affirming, competent therapeutic support for folks who live and love outside the box and often feel judged or misunderstood in therapy. This includes support for folks who are/were poly or non-monogamous or are curious to explore it. For example, I’ve served clients who…
… had become polyamorous after being in a monogamous relationship, and wanted to process what this meant for their relationships and identities
… saw themselves as a “late-bloomer” regarding their sexual and relationship orientations and was exploring what this might mean for their existing and future relationships
… were grappling with attachment issues that emerged when navigating multiple relationships, such as fear of intimacy (or fear of losing it), struggles with jealousy, and questioning their self-worth
… struggled with boundaries and communication about their needs in their polycule
… wanted to explore their desires and past experiences with BDSM and non-monogamous relationships and whether/how to integrate these into their current relationship
My counseling approach draws cues from relational psychodynamic therapy. It requires vulnerability, authenticity, collaboration, and really showing up—both of us! This approach is all about healing through connection. It starts with building a genuine, trusting alliance with me where you feel safe enough to dig into the tough stuff at your own pace. We’ll explore past and present relationships and build a blueprint for safety and more fulfilling relationships with others and with yourself—starting with us, in session.
I also draw from “parts work” for folks looking to understand their traumas and negative beliefs about themselves and the world that may be holding them back, make peace with their painful pasts so that they can feel alive and connected in the present, and feel more cohesive and whole.
Note: Counseling with me is warm, affirming, and also challenging. (Consider me “gently confrontational”!) I’m here not just to support, listen, and validate, but to actively participate in your healing journey with meaningful questions, interpretations, and guided explorations of your pain-points to support your own healing process.
I also bring in lived experience with polyamory and various alternative relationship models and lifestyle practices. I’m openly neurodivergent, queer and trans/gender-expansive as well. This means your support comes from someone who gets it not only professionally, but also personally—and you won’t spend your sessions explaining or defending your experiences and choices to your counselor.
If you’re looking for a fresh approach to counseling from an affirming, nonjudgmental professional who actually understands, please reach out today for a free 30-minute video consult and let’s chat about how I can best help you!
For a free consult, please contact me at: [email protected]
Here’s an overview of what I can offer you:
Services: Individual counseling for adults (online only)
Specializations:
Approach: Affirming, psychodynamic, heavily relational, some ego-states/parts work. My core training and foundation is in psychodynamic psychotherapy and trauma-informed clinical social work with a focus on LGBTQIA+ and marginalized communities.
Communities served: Adults (18+) with non-mainstream identities or relationship practices who are looking to explore their identities, interests, and desires, improve their relationships with themselves and others, get “un-stuck” from unhelpful patterns in their relationships or communication, and feel more confident and whole. Nearly all of my clients are LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (diagnosed and undiagnosed), and/or in poly or ENM relationships or non-traditional relationship structures such as power exchange/BDSM/kink dynamics. Most have experiences of complex/relational trauma. Several of my clients have alternative spiritual practices or are involved in alt subcultures. I also have clients who are sex workers.
Experience: I’ve been in the business of helping people since 2010. I have nearly a decade of experience in the field of therapy, counseling, and social work, and significant experience in sexuality education and counseling. My qualifications include rigorous master’s-level education in trauma-informed psychodynamic psychotherapy, extensive practical training, and many years of on-the-ground experience working with marginalized communities online and in person.
Languages spoken: English (German also possible)
Note for U.S. residents: If you live in the USA, I offer therapy to residents of Connecticut and Vermont under my clinical license as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker; I also offer non-clinical coaching to folks nationwide. If you’re interested in therapy (CT and VT residents only) or non-clinical coaching, please visit the website for my U.S. practice, Two Torches Therapy: https://twotorchestherapy.com/
TALSTR. 38, 07743 JENA, GERMANY
KANSAS CITY, MO, USA (VIRTUAL CLIENTS ONLY)
Degrees: M.S. Forensic Psychology, Walden University, 2020; Ph.D. Clinical Psychology, Walden University, anticipated graduated 2027
Information of Primary Supervisor: Dr Jan Tyson Roberts (MN LP5330)
Services: Individual, Couples, Family
Specialties: Attachment Therapy, DBT, Humanistic, Person-Centered, Somatic, Strength-Based, Trauma-Focused
Skills: Personality Disorders, Trauma, Abuse & Neglect, Neurodivergence
Languages: English
Populations: ages 6-60, LGBTQIA+ allied
5353 GAMBLE DR, STE 395; MINNEAPOLIS MN 55416
I am trained as a somatic practitioner, Reiki practitioner and peer counselor. I also provide somatic education, mediation, and facilitation services. The somatic work that I practice is called Somatic Experiencing and utilizes our felt sense of the body to anchor us into our deepest wisdom, clearest intuition, and clearest paths to transformation and growth. This work was created by Dr. Peter Levine, a psychologist and biophysics. Thus, my work is grounded in the neurobiology of healing and personal transformation; the topic on which I centered my Masters research.
I have over 15 years experience working with individuals, couples, and organizations/ groups, including over 10 years experience managing a mental health crisis drop-in center. I have also worked as a social justice activist and anti-racist/ anti-oppression educator, so I consider myself an accountable ally to communities of color and diverse communities who experience oppression in our society.
I am queer, trans/gender variant and poly friendly and educated. I am available for phone, skype, or in-person sessions. My office is safe and accessible for people with multiple chemical sensitivities and/or environmental illness. It is also accessible for most people who use wheelchairs or have mobility disabilities. - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation
3069 MAPLE AVE, OAKLAND, CA, 94602, US
SAN ANTONIO, TX, USA
HILLSIDE HOUSE, HIGH STREET, EASTRY, KENT CT130HE UK(BASED IN ENGLAND, UK BUT AVAILABLE INTERNATIONALLY VIA ZOOM)
ST.LOUIS, MO, UNITED STATES
I work with individuals and couples at the intersection of the body, desire, and relationship structure. My clients are often expats and intercultural couples navigating non-monogamy without a local community to lean on, people on the solo poly path working through attachment patterns that keep showing up in every new connection, couples opening up and discovering that “we decided to be poly” and “we actually know how to do this” are two very different sentences, and experienced non-monogamous people who’ve figured out the logistics but hit a wall with intimacy, erotic aliveness, or desire within long-term partnerships.
I use a trauma-informed, somatic approach grounded in the Somatica® method and somatic regulation frameworks. The work is body-based, not just talk. Sessions are conducted in English. I work with adults of all genders and relationship structures, online and in-person in the Tarragona area.
FIGUEROLA DEL CAMP, TARRAGONA, SPAIN